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Saturday, October 15, 2011
Tragic Flaw
What is your greatest weakness – the tragic or fatal flaw – that always brings you down?Where did it come from?How do you cope with it?Use examples to explore this concept fully. Explain your answer in 250 words or more.
My greatest weakness is when people compare me to other people. When other people compare me to others, it just makes me mad. Sometimes I feel like burying that person alive. It weakens me by thinking about what I have and don’t have. It all started when I was in middle school. People used to talk about you if didn’t have what other people have. If you didn’t then they will come up to you and ask you dumb questions. One question that they will ask you is; I got my sneakers from Footlocker, where did you yours? If you say another sneaker place then they will say; everybody gets their sneakers from Footlocker, why couldn’t you get it from there? That question just makes me want to blow up. When I hear somebody talking about me, I tell them to talk about their self instead of talking about me. That’s how you suppose to bring yourself back up. Another thing that brings me down is when people call me dumb if I answer a question in class and it’s wrong. When a girl told me that I’m dumb in math class I told her to be quiet and leave me alone. But deep inside of me I knew that I wasn’t dumb, I just didn’t know the answer to the question. For some reason, that statement bothered me that whole day. I listen to music so I can relax myself when I’m down. Music will always satisfy my mind when I’m down.
My greatest weakness is when people look at me weird because i'm weird in i don't wanna be like others. I just look at them like why are you in my personal life why are you worried about me and my life. This happen when me and my friend use to do dumb things like just say stuff out of random. So we really wouldn't care about what no ones says so now that she is not with me and we can do weird things together people just think i'm a crazy weird person. I'm the only one that stands out from anybody either if i'm with a group of friends who act the same i'm going to be very weird and not in the bunch. The other thing is when people say i'm tall. Look I know that i'm bout tall i am not regular height for a girl let me be and my height stand alone and we can be the best of friends. I get tired of people always saying "She is to tall to be a girl." In the main one how tall are you am i that tall to where all the attention has to become on me or is on me. So i just go in my room think about what the people say in take it has great sometimes in bad other times so i go in on folks be listening to music and being my tall awkward weird self.
One Of My Weakness Is When A Girl That You Want To Fight Constantly Talk Mess About You Behind Your Back But Then When You Say Stuff To Her Face She Act Like She Didnt Hear You And You Said It Loud And Clear. Then People Come Up And Tell You That She Said This , That When Its Time For Action She Is Nowhere To Be Found Then She Say She Dont Want To Fight You Nomore. When You Leave It Alone She Goes Back And Says Lies At School To Try And Get You In Trouble.
one of my weakness is my anger problems. when people talk to me in a way i dont like but they say they was just playing i get real mad. Then they always saying why i get so mad easily. sometimes i dont know how to control my anger . One of my other weakness is math. I do not like math sometimes i dont understand,i always had trouble in math.
one of my weakness is when people stare at me for no reason. i dont like that because that just get on my nerves how they just be stare for no reason. and people think i get mad easily because they looking at me. sometimes i think i should just look away like they just not looking at me. one of my other weakness is when people just like starting things for no reason. like for an example when somebody talking to somebody and a person walk down they hall that they no the say you or somebody said something. that what cause fights and people getting injured. i think people that like to start conflicts need to stay away because somebody going to cause a scene or a conflict with they and they aint going like it. and these are my following weakness in my life.
One of my weaknesses is when someone calls me stupid. I absolutely know I have no mental disorder but it really brings me down. I ‘am really silly person that just play around and love to laugh at myself. Really I brush off the hurtful word then move on. I remember when I was in middle school many students some where even my friends would say are you a retard some are joking others, I think was actually serious. Sometimes I would even think as if I was dumb but I got over that only one thing I can’t get over is a teacher. Last year in middle school a teacher asks if I had mental problems. I will never forget why would some of high experienced training in teaching would dare asks a student a question of sort. I forgave the teacher well; no I didn’t forgive her a... I did. Well now when someone calls me stupid I don’t care not at all doesn’t hurt my feelings. If I do then by the end of the day ill will listen to music then matter of fact think about something else. If listen to songs and thinking of something doesn’t work ill call one of my best friends to cheer me up. Well ill call my friends anyway but sometimes I keep thing to myself, sometimes not all the time. Most of the time I won’t show that I am sad about the word someone says to me ill would laugh it off. Nobody would know that I am upset
My greatest weakness is when I'm having a conversation and that person tells me I'm wrong when I know I'm right. They constantly tell me that I'm wrong when I know I'm right. I may have seen it on the TV or read it in a magazine. That person keep trying to prove me wrong when I know what I'm talking about. That is very annoying when you are telling someone something that you know is true and they try to tell you differently. Wherever you saw the information doesn't matter. A fact is a fact. I can see if they heard something different from a different media, but if your just talking from your head, thinking you know something when you don't is just bad. For example, if I saw on the television that theres going to be a football game on Monday night and somebody else is telling me the game is Sunday, I know what I saw. After you prove them wrong, there as quiet as a mosquito. Thats why it's a weakness of mine. They'll start believing what you say, if you prove them wrong long enough.
Personally, believe that my strongest weakness is lack of responsibility. Whenever I get into trouble with my parents or any adult, I tend to not own up to my responsibly and admit to my “crime”. Usually after I get busted and mother has the evidence, I will lie or even deny my wronging. I think the reason that I lie and deny is because I am fearful of the punishment that I face with my mother or the adult; the disappointment from my family. Looking deeper into the problem, I feel like there is a certain image that I have to keep up being whom my grandparents are and the very important people that they are acquainted with. Another reason that I tend to lie and deny my crimes are because I hate to be embarrassed. To me, being embarrassed means that people will laugh and pick fun at you and the stupid action that you have committed; again being that my grandparents are personal friends with some very successful lawyers, doctors, and teachers by doing an embarrassing action, I feel like I make my family members look bad in front of their important friends. Feelings of making my family looking bad to embarrassment to lying and denying my “crimes” all goes back to my strongest weakness: Owning up to my Responsibility. Since I’m not good with owning up to my responsibility, my mother fears for me having a job. She feels that I will do the wrong thing and I’ll get fired! Now that have actually admitted this weakness, I will slowly but surely work on turning this weakness into a strong strength.
One of my weaknesses is doing my homework. There is never a time when i can easily do my homework without being distracted. I always try but seem to fail. Everytime I do my homework, I feel the urge to listen to some music in the process. First of all, searching for the song I want to play already takes about five minutes. So that's five minutes waisted right there. Second of all, I might even want to stop and watch the video. It's so hilarious when I look down at the clock after waisting so much time, and becoming frustrated at coming to realize how much time I've waisted. I freak out! I also get distracted by food. I try to resist and sit there and not think about it, but as I said before, I always fail. I'm a very greedy person who's always eating although I'm really little. I run back and forth up the stairs finding snack-after-snack. The music is already a distraction, why make it worse by constantly going downstairs eating? I really don't know why I do this. So I guess that would be my next weakness, since I just can't resist it. So I can consider food to be my weakness also. I also feel that being skinny is my weakness. I don't have a problem with being small, it doesn't bother me at all. My weakness is just when the first thing that comes out of everyone's mouth in a conversation is, "Omg. You're so skinny!" or "You're really really little. What do you eat?" It really urks me, to be honest. I try to bite my tongue because that really makes me furious on the inside. I just don't ever express to people how I feel when several people constantly tell me that. I don't have a problem with being skinny, I love my shape, and I would never ever try to change because of someone's opinions. By opinions, I've been told that I need to eat more, or that I "need to go to McDonald's and order a couple of burgers". Now that, is when I start to feel insulted. I'm just not even going to share what I said back to those type of people. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that my weakness is when people constantly judge me about my size, especially when I hear it every single day. It gets annoying. It's pretty obvious that I'm aware of being skinny. Not once have I ever cried or got offended or emotional about the situation. I just don't ever let it get to me. That's a perfect way to work around my weakness. I've been asked several times, "Is it hard for you to shop?", "Is it hard to find clothing in your sizes?". Actually no and no. Honestly, I enjoy shopping and there are really some sizes that are smaller than my clothing sizes. Anyways it's my weakness because it really puts me down after constantly hearing it. But at the same time, I know there are alot of people in the world who are alot smaller and skinnier than I am, so I don't worry about it.
One of my weaknesses is studying. Every time i try to study i get distracted easily. Like if i was watching tv and i had to study, i would try to do them both at the same time, but i always end up doing something that has nothing to with studying. When i do end up studying i get tired because of what i was doing before i actually wanted to study. When that happens I end up listening to music. I also have a weakness for getting angry over the samllest things. Someone could say something and a I would get mad for no reason an people would ask me why I was mad but wouldn't say anything, but now i know that I have to work on both of my weaknesses
My greatest weakness is speaking my mind instead of leaving it in my mind. Unlike a lot of people I can’t hold in thoughts about how I feel about someone .so I rather be blunt with that person. Many people take it as offense, but in my opinion you are not real if you can’t express to someone how you feel about them. This weakness has come from my grandma indeed whom watched me thought my child hood. Apparently being around her five to seven hours day, and having one of her many flaws had took a tool on me. This weakness has lead to me getting into great trouble but at the end of the day it is what it is .I Cop with my weakness by trying to keep my thoughts about others to myself but, that doesn’t always work out as planed. I know this weakness will really affect me in the future with jobs, relationships, friends, and family as I get older. I think that all people are born with flaws some fixable others not. Just things giving by god meant to be used in a positive way. Taking my weakness day by day, and improving slowly but sorely we help me. this is one of my many weaknesses that will soon be over come.
One of my greatest weakness is waiting to do something at the last minute. Sometimes I fail to realize that time doesnt wait for anyone, no mattter who you are. When I have something to do, i plan on doing it, but dont until the day before. Sometimes, I get very upset with myself because when I do something at the last minute, I tend to rush. I honestly try not to cope with it at all, I mostly try to get everything done ahead of time. but sometimes things dont turn out as planned, or the way you want. For example, I waited until the last minute to do the Plot Diagram project. the project wasnt at all, truthfully, it was easy, but I waited the day before to do it. I planned on doing it earlier, but I didnt. Another one of my weakness is starting something and taking forever to finish. I dont understand why I do it, its just a bad habit. Sometimes, I try my hardest to finish, but its like a force that keeps pulling back. I first developed this condition in the 7th grade. I think it was because of the fact that i wait to do things a the last minute. in 7th grade I had alot of projects and homework and I couldnt handle it all at once. But now that I see that everything I do from now on counts, Im trying to decide on better ways to get all of my work done. I have got my priorites together and have sacrifist many things to get my work done. I guess another weakness would be getting rid of BAD habits . Well all I can continue to do is try.
One of my weaknesses is expressing my feelings. To be honest I never really could express how I felt about something or someone. I’ve always kept it inside of me and I will never say anything about it. I was afraid of what people might say or think of me, and that lead up to me having problems keeping friends and having a close relationship with my mom. Holding in my feelings was leading up to my anger issues, because of the things that happened to me in the past. No one really knows why I never talk about a lot of things because it was something inside of me that told me if you talk about it, they might judge you or they also might let other people know. I’ve always told myself that one day I would just let everything out but I never gained the courage to do so. That’s why I’m not always happy and fun on some days. Just because I think about what happened and how it really affected me until the point where all I could do was keep it inside of me. What I hate the most is when people ask me what’s wrong and I tell them nothing, why? Because If I do tell them they might ask a lot of questions on why, when, and where did everything happen. People they think they know everything about me but they really don’t because they don’t know what I been through to get where I’m at now and to be the person I am today. Like even my mom doesn’t know everything she needs to know about me. You asked the question what is one of my tragic flaws and expressing my feelings to others is one of them.
My strongest weakness is me being picky. I like things a certain. For example, I'm picky about my clothes, i like my clothes to match according to the color. If my shoes don't match my outfit, then i will change the whole outfit. I'm also picky about who cuts my hair. I don't let just anyone cut my hair because i like my hair a certain way. Some barbers don't meet my expectations. I'm picky about the people who i hang around. But i am still cool with everybody because i don't like drama.
one of my greatest weakness is also expressing my feelings. i hate that i can express my feelings with a person that i really have a problem with or what they say or do..or even a person i like. i dont know where it came from i just know that i always had a very hard time expressing my feelings ever since i was 10. i learn that expressing your feelings is a good and bad thing but its better if you let it out soon enough that person will take what you said and move on. i deal with my weakness by writing poems,stories, and journals. sometimes i am scared to say something to a person or family member so i either write it out or tell another person to tell that person....
It seems as if my essay wasnt long enough so this is another weaknes...... Another one of my weakness is when I observe people and ntheir character and I seems as if try to be like someone lse or try to be someone that they arent. I am a very friendly girl and I almost get along with alot of people, but the only people I dont get along with very often are "copycats and followers" . The reason being is because, they cant seem to show me who they really are. All my life Ive had people that behaved in such a manner. forr example when I ask them one, they have one answer, but when I ask the other person, they change their answer. Mostly girls do this but I have hadboys do it also. I just dont understa nd what it is but they should just be theirselves. I try not to hang around people who act like this, so I dont really cope with. But be honest Mr.G there ARE people in our class, that act like this.
What is my tragic flaw? I would have to say my tragic flaw is that I can tend to get ticked at small things and hold grudges for a long time. Some people don’t think that anger and holding grudges would be a big deal but it really is. Holding grudges can be like holding a sack of cement blocks wherever you go. If I’m having a bad day any small thing can make me upset and make me hold a grudge. Most times though if I get upset I will think about the whole situation and see what I did or what I may have done wrong. There are some people who don’t even need to waste their time getting angry because they get angry and talk about that person that they got upset at and then they just go back to normal. What’s the point of even getting all worked up? Sometimes my cousin will lie and say and do anything to get me in trouble. Like one time she told my aunt that I called her a nigger. And then when I start yelling at her and calling her a liar I’m the one that gets yelled at, and she will just walk away or stand there and gloat. But the point of this story was to say that there was no reason for me to get upset, because that is exactly what she wanted, for me to get angry and start yelling at her and then get in trouble. That was my tragic flaw, but now that I have identified my tragic flaw I can work on it.
One of my greatest weaknesses is reading books/doing homework. Reading actually bores me. If I'm not interested in the book that's in front of me, I get thrown off track. I guess that's because it takes a lot to interest me. Homework makes me even boring. For some reason I can't just sit there and finish it all because it’s always something that distracting me, for instance television or music. I have to listen to music to keep me going with my homework but television completely throws me off. Listening to music is the only way I am capable of finishing up my homework. Another one of my weaknesses is saying anything that comes to mind. I can’t help being outspoken, but i have learned that there's just some things that should be left unsaid even though it’s hard trying to hold in my thoughts. Some people might think that being outspoken is rude and may not want to accept the truth but that's just how I am. I don't be meaning any harm. However, I consider myself outspoken not rude because i judge people by there actions not their culture or appearance. Rude people don't care who they offend, they don't know any better. That's the difference!
One weakness I have is being lazy. For some reason i feel like doing nothing. Whenever an assignment is due 2 or more days later, i wait until the very last day to complete it. For that teachers think my work is horrible and not worth reading. Also, sometimes im late for school and i just sit in my bed pretending to be sleep even though i know i have to leave out. Its like i dont care about anything going on outside of me. Being lazy affects the way i play in sports. I know what im supposed to do, but i dont perform. One day im going to stop being lazy and do what needs to be done during the day.
My greatest weakness is not paying attention. Paying attention is very hard for me to do. My mind be on other stuff. When people talk to me or when I am sitting in class I doze off into a different world. So much be on my mind that I cant just pay attention to what goes on that specific moment when I'm suppose to be paying attention. I got to learn how to pay attention because if I don't pay attention I'll never learn anything. My grades in school are low because of me not paying attention. I don't be knowing whats going on so I cant complete any assignments if I don't know what to do or how to do it. I'll learn one day and that day will be here soon.
My greatest weakness is getting frustrated. When I'm frustrated I can't seem to do anything right. I get frustrated very easily, then it causes me to get mad, and not even want to do what i was doing. When I'm playing basketball I hate, when someone screams at me and its not the coach. That also makes me frustrated, and sometimes i end up not having a good game. It is also very obvious that I get frustrated easily so people have a great advantage on me. My siblings do it on purpose, my sister would turn on and off the lights just because she knows that makes me frustrated. If i was doing something at the time before she did it, I probably wouldn't even feel like doing it anymore because I would just get mad. I try my hardest not to let anything get to my so easily but it does. I might smile and laugh but most of the time I'm frustrated. This problem has affected me everywhere I go. If i can't have it my way I'm mad and I don't want to talk to anyone. This also happens in class when people around me keep talking and I don't want to hear it, i try not to be mean and tell them to shut up but sometimes an annoying stare doesn't shut the up. So i have to tell them to shut up. I wish I didn't get frustrated so easily.
kirby choates. My most dreadful weakness is when people say their there for you but in reality they just saying that to get something out of. and it brings me down in so many ways because it makes me feel like they dont care that they just their to be there. it also makes me feel like im a lame person cause its like im being played.this weakness affects me to the bones.because i have trust issues now it comes people telling methings but dont mean it and it gets me so mad that i could slap that person till my hand swell up. this weakness happens to my mom, i think get from her side of the family. my mom wants me to deal with it in a way i never heard of, she wants me to jus go along with it but when i find out that they were just playing me then i tell i already knew what the truth was. i have another weakness this weakness is being afraid of what people say if i do something wrong. it brings me down because it makes me feel like im nt supposed to be in that postition im in when i know what i can do for example in a football game if i mess up at running back i be like dang and coaches start to yell and scream and then i get more nerves and and start mess up more. it starts tobring me down because it make me feel like i dont suppose to be in that position, but i know i do because i work hard at it and i love that position and im good at it but when people yell at me it gets me discoraged.when i get dicouraged its like i shut down. in school it is the same way. its like when i try it gets harder and harder, but my momma and dad taught me to never give up "keep it moving he will lead you the way". i plan to cope with this weakness by not thinking about it so much and stop worrying if im going mess up or not. just take deep breathes everytime i do somethng wromg(timid).
I care about everything, and everyone. Even if I just met someone, I automatically care about them, even if it is not returned. I help people out, and am very loving and pretty much let people walk all over me because I am too nice, and think that everyone can change, and that everyone has their flaws. I am not naive, I just like to see the good in everyone. But it has not helped me in life. Why. Im the same way. Someday it might help but for now I think people just dont care they do whatever they want to get what they want and dont care about the others around them sometimes. I hope that people would be caring and change their ways but I guess some never will. Everyone does have flaws, but just know that you are being a better person and that one day someone will appreciate your kindness. Doing good and helping people out sure puts a smile on my face to know that I alleviated their stress or just made their day better.
My greatest flaw is my ability to not care for something or someone. At times it’s a great asset. Other times I feel as though I don’t care for the wrong things. Its not as bad as it used to be. I take the important things in life more serious. There are few things on this earth right now that you have no reason to care for, on the other hand every aspect in life should be dealt with seriously. I believe my downfall would be because I underestimated something. Something of a greater power or that’s just flat out stronger than me. My ability not to care makes some of my loved ones mad at times. To have such a nonchalant attitude makes me wonder why a lot of people deal with me. I often make others angry due to me brushing their feelings off or showing that I obviously don’t care about whats going on with them. I would hate for someone to do me like that so I practice a better attitude. I show more love. I greet people with a more sincere smile in hopes that they believe im a helpful person. I have learned how to care and how to show love to ones who deserve it. To the others who do not deserve a good person in their life, I treat with a level of respect you would give a person who slapped your mother. To not care for someone shows that person the amount of dislike you have for that person. In some cases me not caring works out for the best.
My greatest weakness is honestly expressing my feeling towards others. People love coming to me with advice about love, feelings, and relationships, and I tend to have the best advice for it. Now when it comes down to me, I can never take my own advice. It came from previous people that made fun of me for expressing the way I feel. I thought that if you’re open and honest with things it would make your life & the other person’s life that is involved in the situation a lot better. I guess not. For example, I tried to tell a loved one how I felt about them and the phone hung up, but the excuse was my phone died. But they ignored me most of the day. I nearly cried but I pulled myself together. I usually cope with it by letting out a few tears, taking a candle lit shower, and listen to my favorite playlist that’s explains my feelings in the song. Other days when everything is just a big clutter (school, cheer, practice, games, ect.) I try to tell my best friends, so they can give the quickest advice so I can move on with my day. Once I get home, I try to ignore the fact that my mom is questioning why I’m sad or down so I won’t have to explain the story over again. When everything blows over, I just try not to put my ALL in my emotions just so that people can’t day I’m weak can honestly I’m not. I’m just the normal girl in high school, going through the same stuff you might be going through.
One of my tragic flaws is when something stupid happens to me which is all the time and people get to technical with me. I hated when they do that it just gets on my nerve and makes me have a bad period. If my friends could stop being like that I would have a lot of respect for them which I don't.I mean just Friday I started joking around with my friend and he got technical and tried to fight me. He wasn't gonna win Ill tell that so I just turned the other cheek and let him have that one.I just cant take it anymore my friends at west-lake gotta stop being like that other wise I will find some new ones and you will being looking stupid. I'm just joking around so no need to get serious but just remember this you haven't earned my respect if you keep doing that so stop it.
My biggest weakness or flaw is that i cant stop talking about sports and what not. I developed this problem in 7th grade when I watched my first football game. Then I watched my first super bowl and bet on it to I lost the bet and was devastated by the result. From that game forward i started learning more about football and began to talk about my favorite team the Oakland Raiders and 2nd favoite team the 49ers. At first people were ok with it then it got worse and worse. Now i cant go a whole day with out bragging about my two california teams. For example the Raiders played the Saints in the preseason and got blown out. That whole week i talked about how bad the saints were but they still won. I realized that my friends get mad when i start talking about football and they think thats all i talk about. I think that one way I can fix this problem is by trying to talk about other stuff that is not sports or just not say anything at all. I can also watch a wider variety of shows so I can talk about more things.
my greatest weakness is when people put words in other people mouth and wen u comfront them abot it thay always say that they didnt say it but behind your back thay say it to a other people for an example kayla said josh said he want to fight demon but josh didnt say it so that how people start stuff with other people by sayin stuff that people didnt even say but how to stop all the drama is to keep other people name out of other people mouth and stop talkin abot other people that how people get in a lot of trouble a lot talkin when art surpost to
My greatest weakness is paying attention when i be in some classes i cant stop talking.People like to talk to me and i like to talk to them so its kind of hard to stay focus.My friends like to tell me about their problems, and i help and then when we done talking we have to ask the other students what the teacher said.Another weakness is my anger my friends say i take things to serious but its not my fault.People play around to much in like to start stuff with other people .And it bad when you didnt even say nothing then people go lie on other people and that makes me mad.Because they just doing thaat cause they know the person not going to do anything.
My greatest weakness is when people compare me to other people. When other people compare me to others, it just makes me mad. Sometimes I feel like burying that person alive. It weakens me by thinking about what I have and don’t have. It all started when I was in middle school. People used to talk about you if didn’t have what other people have. If you didn’t then they will come up to you and ask you dumb questions. One question that they will ask you is; I got my sneakers from Footlocker, where did you yours? If you say another sneaker place then they will say; everybody gets their sneakers from Footlocker, why couldn’t you get it from there? That question just makes me want to blow up. When I hear somebody talking about me, I tell them to talk about their self instead of talking about me. That’s how you suppose to bring yourself back up.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing that brings me down is when people call me dumb if I answer a question in class and it’s wrong. When a girl told me that I’m dumb in math class I told her to be quiet and leave me alone. But deep inside of me I knew that I wasn’t dumb, I just didn’t know the answer to the question. For some reason, that statement bothered me that whole day. I listen to music so I can relax myself when I’m down. Music will always satisfy my mind when I’m down.
My greatest weakness is when people look at me weird because i'm weird in i don't wanna be like others. I just look at them like why are you in my personal life why are you worried about me and my life. This happen when me and my friend use to do dumb things like just say stuff out of random. So we really wouldn't care about what no ones says so now that she is not with me and we can do weird things together people just think i'm a crazy weird person. I'm the only one that stands out from anybody either if i'm with a group of friends who act the same i'm going to be very weird and not in the bunch.
ReplyDeleteThe other thing is when people say i'm tall. Look I know that i'm bout tall i am not regular height for a girl let me be and my height stand alone and we can be the best of friends. I get tired of people always saying "She is to tall to be a girl." In the main one how tall are you am i that tall to where all the attention has to become on me or is on me. So i just go in my room think about what the people say in take it has great sometimes in bad other times so i go in on folks be listening to music and being my tall awkward weird self.
One Of My Weakness Is When A Girl That You Want To Fight Constantly Talk Mess About You Behind Your Back But Then When You Say Stuff To Her Face She Act Like She Didnt Hear You And You Said It Loud And Clear. Then People Come Up And Tell You That She Said This , That When Its Time For Action She Is Nowhere To Be Found Then She Say She Dont Want To Fight You Nomore. When You Leave It Alone She Goes Back And Says Lies At School To Try And Get You In Trouble.
ReplyDeleteone of my weakness is my anger problems. when people talk to me in a way i dont like but they say they was just playing i get real mad. Then they always saying why i get so mad easily. sometimes i dont know how to control my anger . One of my other weakness is math. I do not like math sometimes i dont understand,i always had trouble in math.
ReplyDeleteone of my weakness is when people stare at me for no reason. i dont like that because that just get on my nerves how they just be stare for no reason. and people think i get mad easily because they looking at me. sometimes i think i should just look away like they just not looking at me. one of my other weakness is when people just like starting things for no reason. like for an example when somebody talking to somebody and a person walk down they hall that they no the say you or somebody said something. that what cause fights and people getting injured. i think people that like to start conflicts need to stay away because somebody going to cause a scene or a conflict with they and they aint going like it. and these are my following weakness in my life.
ReplyDeleteOne of my weaknesses is when someone calls me stupid. I absolutely know I have no mental disorder but it really brings me down. I ‘am really silly person that just play around and love to laugh at myself. Really I brush off the hurtful word then move on. I remember when I was in middle school many students some where even my friends would say are you a retard some are joking others, I think was actually serious. Sometimes I would even think as if I was dumb but I got over that only one thing I can’t get over is a teacher. Last year in middle school a teacher asks if I had mental problems. I will never forget why would some of high experienced training in teaching would dare asks a student a question of sort. I forgave the teacher well; no I didn’t forgive her a... I did. Well now when someone calls me stupid I don’t care not at all doesn’t hurt my feelings. If I do then by the end of the day ill will listen to music then matter of fact think about something else. If listen to songs and thinking of something doesn’t work ill call one of my best friends to cheer me up. Well ill call my friends anyway but sometimes I keep thing to myself, sometimes not all the time. Most of the time I won’t show that I am sad about the word someone says to me ill would laugh it off. Nobody would know that I am upset
ReplyDeleteMy greatest weakness is when I'm having a conversation and that person tells me I'm wrong when I know I'm right. They constantly tell me that I'm wrong when I know I'm right. I may have seen it on the TV or read it in a magazine. That person keep trying to prove me wrong when I know what I'm talking about. That is very annoying when you are telling someone something that you know is true and they try to tell you differently. Wherever you saw the information doesn't matter. A fact is a fact. I can see if they heard something different from a different media, but if your just talking from your head, thinking you know something when you don't is just bad. For example, if I saw on the television that theres going to be a football game on Monday night and somebody else is telling me the game is Sunday, I know what I saw. After you prove them wrong, there as quiet as a mosquito. Thats why it's a weakness of mine. They'll start believing what you say, if you prove them wrong long enough.
ReplyDeletePersonally, believe that my strongest weakness is lack of responsibility. Whenever I get into trouble with my parents or any adult, I tend to not own up to my responsibly and admit to my “crime”. Usually after I get busted and mother has the evidence, I will lie or even deny my wronging. I think the reason that I lie and deny is because I am fearful of the punishment that I face with my mother or the adult; the disappointment from my family. Looking deeper into the problem, I feel like there is a certain image that I have to keep up being whom my grandparents are and the very important people that they are acquainted with. Another reason that I tend to lie and deny my crimes are because I hate to be embarrassed. To me, being embarrassed means that people will laugh and pick fun at you and the stupid action that you have committed; again being that my grandparents are personal friends with some very successful lawyers, doctors, and teachers by doing an embarrassing action, I feel like I make my family members look bad in front of their important friends. Feelings of making my family looking bad to embarrassment to lying and denying my “crimes” all goes back to my strongest weakness: Owning up to my Responsibility. Since I’m not good with owning up to my responsibility, my mother fears for me having a job. She feels that I will do the wrong thing and I’ll get fired! Now that have actually admitted this weakness, I will slowly but surely work on turning this weakness into a strong strength.
ReplyDeleteOne of my weaknesses is doing my homework. There is never a time when i can easily do my homework without being distracted. I always try but seem to fail. Everytime I do my homework, I feel the urge to listen to some music in the process. First of all, searching for the song I want to play already takes about five minutes. So that's five minutes waisted right there. Second of all, I might even want to stop and watch the video. It's so hilarious when I look down at the clock after waisting so much time, and becoming frustrated at coming to realize how much time I've waisted. I freak out! I also get distracted by food. I try to resist and sit there and not think about it, but as I said before, I always fail. I'm a very greedy person who's always eating although I'm really little. I run back and forth up the stairs finding snack-after-snack. The music is already a distraction, why make it worse by constantly going downstairs eating? I really don't know why I do this. So I guess that would be my next weakness, since I just can't resist it. So I can consider food to be my weakness also. I also feel that being skinny is my weakness. I don't have a problem with being small, it doesn't bother me at all. My weakness is just when the first thing that comes out of everyone's mouth in a conversation is, "Omg. You're so skinny!" or "You're really really little. What do you eat?" It really urks me, to be honest. I try to bite my tongue because that really makes me furious on the inside. I just don't ever express to people how I feel when several people constantly tell me that. I don't have a problem with being skinny, I love my shape, and I would never ever try to change because of someone's opinions. By opinions, I've been told that I need to eat more, or that I "need to go to McDonald's and order a couple of burgers". Now that, is when I start to feel insulted. I'm just not even going to share what I said back to those type of people. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that my weakness is when people constantly judge me about my size, especially when I hear it every single day. It gets annoying. It's pretty obvious that I'm aware of being skinny. Not once have I ever cried or got offended or emotional about the situation. I just don't ever let it get to me. That's a perfect way to work around my weakness. I've been asked several times, "Is it hard for you to shop?", "Is it hard to find clothing in your sizes?". Actually no and no. Honestly, I enjoy shopping and there are really some sizes that are smaller than my clothing sizes. Anyways it's my weakness because it really puts me down after constantly hearing it. But at the same time, I know there are alot of people in the world who are alot smaller and skinnier than I am, so I don't worry about it.
ReplyDeleteOne of my weaknesses is studying. Every time i try to study i get distracted easily. Like if i was watching tv and i had to study, i would try to do them both at the same time, but i always end up doing something that has nothing to with studying. When i do end up studying i get tired because of what i was doing before i actually wanted to study. When that happens I end up listening to music. I also have a weakness for getting angry over the samllest things. Someone could say something and a I would get mad for no reason an people would ask me why I was mad but wouldn't say anything, but now i know that I have to work on both of my weaknesses
ReplyDeleteMy greatest weakness is speaking my mind instead of leaving it in my mind. Unlike a lot of people I can’t hold in thoughts about how I feel about someone .so I rather be blunt with that person. Many people take it as offense, but in my opinion you are not real if you can’t express to someone how you feel about them. This weakness has come from my grandma indeed whom watched me thought my child hood. Apparently being around her five to seven hours day, and having one of her many flaws had took a tool on me. This weakness has lead to me getting into great trouble but at the end of the day it is what it is .I Cop with my weakness by trying to keep my thoughts about others to myself but, that doesn’t always work out as planed. I know this weakness will really affect me in the future with jobs, relationships, friends, and family as I get older. I think that all people are born with flaws some fixable others not. Just things giving by god meant to be used in a positive way. Taking my weakness day by day, and improving slowly but sorely we help me. this is one of my many weaknesses that will soon be over come.
ReplyDeleteOne of my greatest weakness is waiting to do something at the last minute. Sometimes I fail to realize that time doesnt wait for anyone, no mattter who you are. When I have something to do, i plan on doing it, but dont until the day before. Sometimes, I get very upset with myself because when I do something at the last minute, I tend to rush. I honestly try not to cope with it at all, I mostly try to get everything done ahead of time. but sometimes things dont turn out as planned, or the way you want. For example, I waited until the last minute to do the Plot Diagram project. the project wasnt at all, truthfully, it was easy, but I waited the day before to do it. I planned on doing it earlier, but I didnt. Another one of my weakness is starting something and taking forever to finish. I dont understand why I do it, its just a bad habit. Sometimes, I try my hardest to finish, but its like a force that keeps pulling back. I first developed this condition in the 7th grade. I think it was because of the fact that i wait to do things a the last minute. in 7th grade I had alot of projects and homework and I couldnt handle it all at once. But now that I see that everything I do from now on counts, Im trying to decide on better ways to get all of my work done. I have got my priorites together and have sacrifist many things to get my work done. I guess another weakness would be getting rid of BAD habits . Well all I can continue to do is try.
ReplyDeleteOne of my weaknesses is expressing my feelings. To be honest I never really could express how I felt about something or someone. I’ve always kept it inside of me and I will never say anything about it. I was afraid of what people might say or think of me, and that lead up to me having problems keeping friends and having a close relationship with my mom. Holding in my feelings was leading up to my anger issues, because of the things that happened to me in the past. No one really knows why I never talk about a lot of things because it was something inside of me that told me if you talk about it, they might judge you or they also might let other people know. I’ve always told myself that one day I would just let everything out but I never gained the courage to do so. That’s why I’m not always happy and fun on some days. Just because I think about what happened and how it really affected me until the point where all I could do was keep it inside of me. What I hate the most is when people ask me what’s wrong and I tell them nothing, why? Because If I do tell them they might ask a lot of questions on why, when, and where did everything happen. People they think they know everything about me but they really don’t because they don’t know what I been through to get where I’m at now and to be the person I am today. Like even my mom doesn’t know everything she needs to know about me. You asked the question what is one of my tragic flaws and expressing my feelings to others is one of them.
ReplyDeleteMy strongest weakness is me being picky. I like things a certain. For example, I'm picky about my clothes, i like my clothes to match according to the color. If my shoes don't match my outfit, then i will change the whole outfit. I'm also picky about who cuts my hair. I don't let just anyone cut my hair because i like my hair a certain way. Some barbers don't meet my expectations. I'm picky about the people who i hang around. But i am still cool with everybody because i don't like drama.
ReplyDeleteone of my greatest weakness is also expressing my feelings. i hate that i can express my feelings with a person that i really have a problem with or what they say or do..or even a person i like. i dont know where it came from i just know that i always had a very hard time expressing my feelings ever since i was 10. i learn that expressing your feelings is a good and bad thing but its better if you let it out soon enough that person will take what you said and move on. i deal with my weakness by writing poems,stories, and journals. sometimes i am scared to say something to a person or family member so i either write it out or tell another person to tell that person....
ReplyDeleteIt seems as if my essay wasnt long enough so this is another weaknes...... Another one of my weakness is when I observe people and ntheir character and I seems as if try to be like someone lse or try to be someone that they arent. I am a very friendly girl and I almost get along with alot of people, but the only people I dont get along with very often are "copycats and followers" . The reason being is because, they cant seem to show me who they really are. All my life Ive had people that behaved in such a manner. forr example when I ask them one, they have one answer, but when I ask the other person, they change their answer. Mostly girls do this but I have hadboys do it also. I just dont understa nd what it is but they should just be theirselves. I try not to hang around people who act like this, so I dont really cope with. But be honest Mr.G there ARE people in our class, that act like this.
ReplyDeleteWhat is my tragic flaw? I would have to say my tragic flaw is that I can tend to get ticked at small things and hold grudges for a long time. Some people don’t think that anger and holding grudges would be a big deal but it really is. Holding grudges can be like holding a sack of cement blocks wherever you go. If I’m having a bad day any small thing can make me upset and make me hold a grudge. Most times though if I get upset I will think about the whole situation and see what I did or what I may have done wrong. There are some people who don’t even need to waste their time getting angry because they get angry and talk about that person that they got upset at and then they just go back to normal. What’s the point of even getting all worked up?
ReplyDeleteSometimes my cousin will lie and say and do anything to get me in trouble. Like one time she told my aunt that I called her a nigger. And then when I start yelling at her and calling her a liar I’m the one that gets yelled at, and she will just walk away or stand there and gloat. But the point of this story was to say that there was no reason for me to get upset, because that is exactly what she wanted, for me to get angry and start yelling at her and then get in trouble.
That was my tragic flaw, but now that I have identified my tragic flaw I can work on it.
One of my greatest weaknesses is reading books/doing homework. Reading actually bores me. If I'm not interested in the book that's in front of me, I get thrown off track. I guess that's because it takes a lot to interest me. Homework makes me even boring. For some reason I can't just sit there and finish it all because it’s always something that distracting me, for instance television or music. I have to listen to music to keep me going with my homework but television completely throws me off. Listening to music is the only way I am capable of finishing up my homework. Another one of my weaknesses is saying anything that comes to mind. I can’t help being outspoken, but i have learned that there's just some things that should be left unsaid even though it’s hard trying to hold in my thoughts. Some people might think that being outspoken is rude and may not want to accept the truth but that's just how I am. I don't be meaning any harm. However, I consider myself outspoken not rude because i judge people by there actions not their culture or appearance. Rude people don't care who they offend, they don't know any better. That's the difference!
ReplyDeleteOne weakness I have is being lazy. For some reason i feel like doing nothing. Whenever an assignment is due 2 or more days later, i wait until the very last day to complete it. For that teachers think my work is horrible and not worth reading. Also, sometimes im late for school and i just sit in my bed pretending to be sleep even though i know i have to leave out. Its like i dont care about anything going on outside of me. Being lazy affects the way i play in sports. I know what im supposed to do, but i dont perform. One day im going to stop being lazy and do what needs to be done during the day.
ReplyDeleteMy greatest weakness is not paying attention. Paying attention is very hard for me to do. My mind be on other stuff. When people talk to me or when I am sitting in class I doze off into a different world. So much be on my mind that I cant just pay attention to what goes on that specific moment when I'm suppose to be paying attention. I got to learn how to pay attention because if I don't pay attention I'll never learn anything. My grades in school are low because of me not paying attention. I don't be knowing whats going on so I cant complete any assignments if I don't know what to do or how to do it. I'll learn one day and that day will be here soon.
ReplyDeleteMy greatest weakness is getting frustrated. When I'm frustrated I can't seem to do anything right. I get frustrated very easily, then it causes me to get mad, and not even want to do what i was doing. When I'm playing basketball I hate, when someone screams at me and its not the coach. That also makes me frustrated, and sometimes i end up not having a good game. It is also very obvious that I get frustrated easily so people have a great advantage on me. My siblings do it on purpose, my sister would turn on and off the lights just because she knows that makes me frustrated. If i was doing something at the time before she did it, I probably wouldn't even feel like doing it anymore because I would just get mad. I try my hardest not to let anything get to my so easily but it does. I might smile and laugh but most of the time I'm frustrated. This problem has affected me everywhere I go. If i can't have it my way I'm mad and I don't want to talk to anyone. This also happens in class when people around me keep talking and I don't want to hear it, i try not to be mean and tell them to shut up but sometimes an annoying stare doesn't shut the up. So i have to tell them to shut up. I wish I didn't get frustrated so easily.
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ReplyDeleteMy most dreadful weakness is when people say their there for you but in reality they just saying that to get something out of. and it brings me down in so many ways because it makes me feel like they dont care that they just their to be there. it also makes me feel like im a lame person cause its like im being played.this weakness affects me to the bones.because i have trust issues now it comes people telling methings but dont mean it and it gets me so mad that i could slap that person till my hand swell up. this weakness happens to my mom, i think get from her side of the family. my mom wants me to deal with it in a way i never heard of, she wants me to jus go along with it but when i find out that they were just playing me then i tell i already knew what the truth was. i have another weakness this weakness is being afraid of what people say if i do something wrong. it brings me down because it makes me feel like im nt supposed to be in that postition im in when i know what i can do for example in a football game if i mess up at running back i be like dang and coaches start to yell and scream and then i get more nerves and and start mess up more. it starts tobring me down because it make me feel like i dont suppose to be in that position, but i know i do because i work hard at it and i love that position and im good at it but when people yell at me it gets me discoraged.when i get dicouraged its like i shut down. in school it is the same way. its like when i try it gets harder and harder, but my momma and dad taught me to never give up "keep it moving he will lead you the way". i plan to cope with this weakness by not thinking about it so much and stop worrying if im going mess up or not. just take deep breathes everytime i do somethng wromg(timid).
I care about everything, and everyone.
ReplyDeleteEven if I just met someone, I automatically care about them, even if it is not returned.
I help people out, and am very loving and pretty much let people walk all over me because I am too nice, and think that everyone can change, and that everyone has their flaws.
I am not naive, I just like to see the good in everyone.
But it has not helped me in life.
Why.
Im the same way. Someday it might help but for now I think people just dont care they do whatever they want to get what they want and dont care about the others around them sometimes. I hope that people would be caring and change their ways but I guess some never will. Everyone does have flaws, but just know that you are being a better person and that one day someone will appreciate your kindness. Doing good and helping people out sure puts a smile on my face to know that I alleviated their stress or just made their day better.
My greatest flaw is my ability to not care for something or someone. At times it’s a great asset. Other times I feel as though I don’t care for the wrong things. Its not as bad as it used to be. I take the important things in life more serious. There are few things on this earth right now that you have no reason to care for, on the other hand every aspect in life should be dealt with seriously. I believe my downfall would be because I underestimated something. Something of a greater power or that’s just flat out stronger than me. My ability not to care makes some of my loved ones mad at times. To have such a nonchalant attitude makes me wonder why a lot of people deal with me. I often make others angry due to me brushing their feelings off or showing that I obviously don’t care about whats going on with them. I would hate for someone to do me like that so I practice a better attitude. I show more love. I greet people with a more sincere smile in hopes that they believe im a helpful person. I have learned how to care and how to show love to ones who deserve it. To the others who do not deserve a good person in their life, I treat with a level of respect you would give a person who slapped your mother. To not care for someone shows that person the amount of dislike you have for that person. In some cases me not caring works out for the best.
ReplyDeleteMy greatest weakness is honestly expressing my feeling towards others. People love coming to me with advice about love, feelings, and relationships, and I tend to have the best advice for it. Now when it comes down to me, I can never take my own advice. It came from previous people that made fun of me for expressing the way I feel. I thought that if you’re open and honest with things it would make your life & the other person’s life that is involved in the situation a lot better. I guess not. For example, I tried to tell a loved one how I felt about them and the phone hung up, but the excuse was my phone died. But they ignored me most of the day. I nearly cried but I pulled myself together. I usually cope with it by letting out a few tears, taking a candle lit shower, and listen to my favorite playlist that’s explains my feelings in the song. Other days when everything is just a big clutter (school, cheer, practice, games, ect.) I try to tell my best friends, so they can give the quickest advice so I can move on with my day. Once I get home, I try to ignore the fact that my mom is questioning why I’m sad or down so I won’t have to explain the story over again. When everything blows over, I just try not to put my ALL in my emotions just so that people can’t day I’m weak can honestly I’m not. I’m just the normal girl in high school, going through the same stuff you might be going through.
ReplyDeleteOne of my tragic flaws is when something stupid happens to me which is all the time and people get to technical with me. I hated when they do that it just gets on my nerve and makes me have a bad period. If my friends could stop being like that I would have a lot of respect for them which I don't.I mean just Friday I started joking around with my friend and he got technical and tried to fight me. He wasn't gonna win Ill tell that so I just turned the other cheek and let him have that one.I just cant take it anymore my friends at west-lake gotta stop being like that other wise I will find some new ones and you will being looking stupid. I'm just joking around so no need to get serious but just remember this you haven't earned my respect if you keep doing that so stop it.
ReplyDeleteMy biggest weakness or flaw is that i cant stop talking about sports and what not. I developed this problem in 7th grade when I watched my first football game. Then I watched my first super bowl and bet on it to I lost the bet and was devastated by the result. From that game forward i started learning more about football and began to talk about my favorite team the Oakland Raiders and 2nd favoite team the 49ers. At first people were ok with it then it got worse and worse. Now i cant go a whole day with out bragging about my two california teams. For example the Raiders played the Saints in the preseason and got blown out. That whole week i talked about how bad the saints were but they still won. I realized that my friends get mad when i start talking about football and they think thats all i talk about. I think that one way I can fix this problem is by trying to talk about other stuff that is not sports or just not say anything at all. I can also watch a wider variety of shows so I can talk about more things.
ReplyDeletemy greatest weakness is when people put words in other people mouth and wen u comfront them abot it thay always say that they didnt say it but
ReplyDeletebehind your back thay say it to a other people for an example kayla said josh said he want to fight demon but josh didnt say it so that how people start stuff with other people by sayin stuff that people didnt even say but how to stop all the drama is to keep other people name out of other people mouth and stop talkin abot other people that how people get in a lot of trouble a lot talkin when art surpost to
My greatest weakness is paying attention when i be in some classes i cant stop talking.People like to talk to me and i like to talk to them so its kind of hard to stay focus.My friends like to tell me about their problems, and i help and then when we done talking we have to ask the other students what the teacher said.Another weakness is my anger my friends say i take things to serious but its not my fault.People play around to much in like to start stuff with other people .And it bad when you didnt even say nothing then people go lie on other people and that makes me mad.Because they just doing thaat cause they know the person not going to do anything.
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